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Nor'easter, family tree and emergency surgery...

Posted on Mar 4th, 2009 by ingebrita : seeker ingebrita

Sometimes hibernating in winter can lead to cabin fever, but sometimes events conspire to provide way too much excitement in breaking up the monotony...  The occasional approach of a huge snowstorm usually creates enough elation to satisfy my need for a little change in scenery.

It was fun food shopping on Sunday, getting ready for the anticipated wallop of a good old fashioned nor'easter.  The snowflakes began falling Sunday evening.  Tim left for an extra shift at work and Beverly arrived to spend the night so she could have a short commute to work in the morning.

We woke up Monday morning to about 6 inches of the white stuff - more than enough to delight me.  But it kept snowing!  We wound up with 10 inches before a lull in the storm!  Of course the schools and most other businesses remained closed so Beverly and I were faced with the challenge of shoveling our cars out and excavating a spot for Tim when he could get home.  So we bundled up and came up with a plan.  (Did I mention that I was so glad she was here!?)  We found an unoccupied visitor parking spot and started to dig.  For some strange reason I love shoveling snow - that and doing laundry are my favorite chores...  It was exhilarating and we chatted about all kinds of childhood memories, like the snow forts we used build at the end of the driveway so we could pummel our much older (21 years) and adored bachelor cousin Leo with snowballs when he arrived to visit in his Cadillac.  (He had a friend who was a dealer...)

I dug out the front of my car and then guarded the dug-out empty spot (visitor designated parking spaces are at a premium in our condo complex) while Beverly drove my Echo over to claim it.  We then worked away at what remained of snow in our parking place so that Tim could park the Tercel there whenever he got home.  (He had been at work some 17 hours by then...)  The next thing we were going to do was the spot where Beverly was parked, but we were exhausted and sore by then and she has four-wheel drive and decided it wasn't all that necessary to get hers done, even though it would turn out later that we would need her car.

When I got home and checked my email I discovered that my son had found a genealogy website where the the whole family can work privately on the family tree on-line.  Geni  Well, that completely absorbed my attention for the rest of the day...  I lost track of time, Tim got home at last and dinner was late.  And, it had started snowing again.

Tuckered out, I finally went to bed only to be awakened perhaps an hour later to learn that my daughter-in-law was being taken to the hospital by ambulance for emergency surgery on a hernia.  The roads were still in very bad shape, so Beverly drove me to the hospital in her car (after we brushed the foot of snow off of it!) and we spent the night there with Nate so he wouldn't have to wait alone while Shea was having surgery.  (Tim had to sleep after being up over 24 hours...)  It looks like Shea will be all right but she will need to stay in the hospital for several days to make sure everything is working as it should.  The hard part was enduring the uncertainty while she was in surgery.  My paternal grandmother died of a strangulated hernia, but I kept telling myself that treatment had no doubt improved since 1943.  And I kept my mouth shut, too, not mentioning this to poor Nate, who was beside himself with worry.  The surgeon finally came to speak with us at 3:15 a.m. and Nate finally got to go see her in intensive care at 4:30 a.m.  Beverly and I finally left him there and came home to sleep.

So, yesterday I slept a couple of hours and did laundry and kept a migraine at bay...  (Disturbing my sleep routine is one of my migraine triggers...)  Today I'm going to try and get up to my dad's - I'm not sure about the roads yet...  Auntie wants to get to the bank and book store!  Larisa was at Dad's for the storm and the next night, too, so hopefully John is managing with Dad all right without Beverly.  Will get there after getting Auntie settled and will swap storm stories with John I'm sure.  Will have to check in on Shea, too.  But I'm ready to go back to hibernating now!

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Asteri : StarChild
about 2 hours later
Asteri said

Hugs from a warm place where snow does not exist :)

Taikunping : inner fire
1 day later
Taikunping said

Hope things have settled, the website sounds good, I haven’t done any family tree stuff for months, probably since joining Gaia!

ingebrita : seeker
1 day later
ingebrita said

O, I’d miss the snow, Asteri!  As long as I don’t have to drive anywhere.  Nothing beats being curled up with a good book and a cup of tea with the snowflakes gently covering the landscape with glittery snow flake crystals!  The biggest storm I remember was in 1978 - we got 17 inches!  Where do you live?
 
Taikunping, thanks!  The doctor says Shea can probably come home today.  I’ll be going with Nate to pick her up if he releases her.  I hadn’t done any genealogy since finding Gaia, either…  Now I can see my free time will be more torn.  It’s fun seeing what sorts of things the family is adding to their individual profile pages!

Denim : noncomformist#12
2 days later
Denim said
I love visiting you Barbara, I really do! You share so much of your daily things, life, wishes that it comes so easily to sit in your company. You feel like an old friend at times and while I am out here, isolate, snowed in and alone I welcome your company in my home and space. 

I hope your family is well and all things are back on track. Your family tree hunt sounds exciting, I like that each one of you can work on certain things separateley yet see how the progress is going. We did our family tree work on both sides and dug back far in history. It was exciting and I still dig in it each week at least. Someone is always calling seeking information.

I can’t believe you like shoveling snow and doing laundry. Actually, I can’t even believe you said that at all!

Now doing the dishes, that I love!

lol…

Take care
willowspirit : Solve et Coagula
5 days later
willowspirit said

That was pretty interesting. Once, i tried to help my daughter to perform family tree for homework and we didn’t get far enough… But we find lots of interesting branches in lots of countries…
Thanks for sharing!

ingebrita : seeker
5 days later
ingebrita said

I love your visits, too, Denim!  I guess 17 inches of snow would seem like a dusting to you where you are!  It’s odd perhaps, but as I go through my daily things, words to describe what is happening are always running though my mind.  I’m constantly thinking: how would I tell a story out of this mundane event?  I love to write because I can edit what I’m saying before I present it to the world, whereas when I talk I am quite tongue-tied.  I’m happy to keep you company any time!


Yes, the family affectionately calls me the Laundry Queen…  For a while when our kids were quite small, my friend and I helped each other out.  Once a week she would come clean my house, which I disliked doing, and I would do her laundry.  We each thought we were getting the better deal!  Don’t like doing dishes all that much.  My grandmother loved to do the dishes and told me she thought that was because her mother never allowed her to do them.  I also love weeding the garden - maybe it’s just being outside…


Shea is fine now and should be headed back to work Friday.  No more snow shoveling for her!


Have you found when your ancestors arrived in Canada and where they were from?  Tim’s ancestors showed up in Virginia before the American Revolution and fought in a Scottish regiment on the side of the British.  Loyalists.  After the war they moved to Nova Scotia.  They were all granted land in Guysborough where they lived until the 1880s.  Two of Tim’s 2nd great grandfathers, fishermen, then left Guysborough and immigrated to Provincetown, Massachusetts.  We’re hoping to visit Nova Scotia in the future.  We’ve made contact with distant cousins and swapped information, too.  It’s a never-ending, addictive, puzzle…


I had to laugh, Vesna…  whenever one of our relatives gets a family tree assignment in school they come to me looking for help!  I think your tree must be fascinating!  My father’s parents immigrated from Ukraine and I was always told that “the records were all destroyed in the war.”  I would love to go there some day and see the village they came from…

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